Aha of today

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday My habit is to check my personal email in the morning. I had an email that triggered me and took 2 hours for me to process and put back in its box. I had different plans for those 2 hours. From now, I’ll skip personal emails in the morning.

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday Saying no immediately is such a great way to miss out on opportunities and possibilities that life has to offer.

Aha of today

#AhaOfTodayI used to be like that… not knowing how to listen. Actually, it’s very easy: just sit there and witness the other person. That’s it. No need to do anything else.

Aha of the week

#AhaOfTheWeek Fundamentally, when you go deep down, there are 2 needs that we seek to fulfill as humans: attachment/connection and authenticity. And they’re slightly at odds with each other.

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#AhaOfToday Leading by example works even better if others get to witness your behaviors. In software development, there are contexts where you might need to show-and-tell what you’ve done

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday In general, Romanian culture is based on punishment and blame (because history). No wonder I was so used to finding excuses and avoiding taking responsibility. And I see this strategy manifesting in others living in Romania. #honesty

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday Negative thoughts, have-to thinking, fixed mindset, etc. also fulfill (or used to fulfill) some needs or personal values. It’s useful to identify these before starting to work on changing the negative thoughts

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday First step to getting out of the blame game: Blame the system instead of the other.

Aha of today

#AhaOfToday Fundamentally, when you go deep down, there are 2 needs that we seek to fulfill as humans: attachment/connection and authenticity. And, they’re slightly at odds with each other.

Aha of the week

#AhaOfTheWeek Take full ownership of my own position and authority. Everyone will be better off when I do that.